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Why Your Nanny Might Quit (and It’s Not What You Think)
- Ruth Regan
- Sep 18
- 3 min read
When a nanny suddenly resigns, many families assume it must be about pay or scheduling. But in reality, one of the most common reasons great nannies leave has nothing to do with money or hours — it’s something called job creep.
WHAT IS JOB CREEP?
Job creep happens when new responsibilities slowly pile onto a nanny’s role without prior discussion or agreement. It often starts small — “Can you just throw in a load of laundry?” — but over time, these unplanned tasks add up.
For nannies, this can feel like their role is expanding beyond what they signed up for, leading to stress, burnout, and frustration.
SIGNS THAT JOB CREEP MIGHT BE HAPPENING
⚠️ Sudden extra duties (housekeeping, errands, pet care, etc.)
⚠️ Unclear boundaries between childcare and household management
⚠️ Feeling undervalued when extra work isn’t acknowledged or compensated
Even the most dedicated and loving nanny can feel discouraged if their role shifts without a conversation.
WHY IT MATTERS FOR FAMILIES
When nannies quit, families face the emotional and financial stress of starting the search all over again. By preventing job creep, parents can protect their investment in a long-term relationship — and keep a trusted caregiver who knows their children best.
HOW TO PREVENT JOB CREEP
✅ Define roles clearly from the start: Use a written contract that outlines duties, hours, and expectations.
✅ Communicate openly: If you need additional help, have a direct conversation with your nanny about changes — and adjust pay if necessary.
✅ Respect boundaries: Remember: your nanny’s primary role is childcare. Adding unrelated tasks without agreement can quickly damage the relationship.
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